Friday, May 22, 2009
UpDated
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Sunday, May 17, 2009
Crazy bitch is off her meds
The crazy bitch is off her meds yet again.
I swear this women needs to be locked up in a mental-ward never to be allowed out! For those of you who are reading and are wondering whom I am referring to, I am speaking about my husbands worst mistake in his whole life - his second ex wife. So when I say crazy in this post or any other for that matter I am speaking about her. I guess I will start with some back story.
I met my husband back in 2004. He was just three months back in the states since his year and a half tour in Iraq. He was sent to West point to train some cadets… I met him on a floating barge called Gully’s on the Hudson River. Well back to my rant… Crazy ex wife is Bi-Polar, and takes herself off of her meds often, claiming she is cured, and no longer needs them. No crazy you are not cured, you are a fucken nut job!
She unfortunately has custody of their now 9 year old daughter. She has convinced said daughter that since I have had children with her Daddy that she no longer counts/matters, which in itself is such a load of shit. He loves all of his kids, and I love his kids like they are mine. The two oldest are MINE. Vannah and I had been getting very close, she has always liked me and we always did stuff and hung out while she was here. Well Crazy took it upon herself to fill the little girls head with a bunch of lies and misconceptions about how we, and I feel about her. Crazy told Vannah that since I have had my two bio kids that I no longer need her as my daughter and that she shouldn’t want to come visit us… WHY ON GODS GREEN EARTH would someone say that to a child?? I KNOW that CRAZY said this because Vannah told me! We get her ONE month every two-three months- she is in year round school in reno for those who were going to ask how.. When she was here in March she was distant with me, and never wanted to go do our girly days like we used to. One afternoon she popped off saying, you don’t have to take me with you, i know you really don’t want to anyway. I was like WHAT?? WHAT are you talking about?? Of course I want you to go, we always go get peddies together when you are here. Well she proceeds to tell my husband and I everything that CRAZY has been telling her…. I was in tears, she was in tears and hubby was is shock and a state of confusion. So he called CRAZY to confront her about her lieing to the child. Well of course she denied saying such things and insisted that the things Vannah was telling us were the same things she was telling her about not wanting to come see us. This child never want to leave us when we take her back to the airport for her return flight, she cries the whole drive to the airport and tells us over and over again that she wants to live with us.
Now I fully believe with CRAZYs mental state that it would be in Vannah’s best interest to live here, but she is not going to just give us Vannah, to her Vannah is her meal ticket and her BFF. yea BFF. When the child was 8, she new the inner workings of CRAZYs relationship with a married man!!
The only reason crazy has custody now is because when she was married to hubby, she packed up his truck , and left to go back home to Reno while he was at work one afternoon! No goodbye, no divorce papers, yes he knew things were not working he had filled for divorce 3 months prior when she attacked him and attempted to strangle him! But he didn’t want another failed marriage under his belt, so when she said she wanted to go to counseling to fix it he stopped the divorce proceedings… Anyway she ran off to reno in his truck, with his kid, called and left a messge on the house phone, saying that she had left, and emptied the accounts and wasn’t coming back… Now wasn’t that nice of her?? He tried everything he could to have her brought back to TN but since TN doesn’t have any sort of parent knapping clause/rules they did nothing. So when time for custody came the mediator said that the judge would more then likely not move the child from the current home.. well right after that he filled anyway, but only for it to get put on hold because he got deployed to Iraq. While he was in Iraq his older two kids went to live with his family back in gulfport ms. That feb he got back from iraq the courts wouldn’t move the child… got it yet????? Good,now fast foward abit…
When I first came into the picture crazy flipped! She had it in her little mind that she and him were going to get back together once his oldest two moved out! WTF?? Seriously?? Anyway she flied for a TPO claiming that hubby threatened to take the child and move to Mexico… (because he wanted the army to arrest him for going a wall right…. -told you she’s a bumb bitch… )SO NOT WHAT HAPPENED! that is what she told us she would do if we ever filled for custody!! So 2005 came and went and hubby did not see his daughter. For Christmas that year i made the kids all scrapbooks, and when crazy got Vannah’s she became civil with me, and we started planning for vannah’s trips. We did/do most of the talking as when hubby and her speak we end up back in court, she thinks she is always right about everything, and hubby cant stand to let her think that… She lives in her own world and is out of touch with reality… well back to today….
Crazy called me about Vannah’s visit. We are supposed to get her the Saturday after the day school lets out and have her until 10 days before school starts. My husband and I buy her a bunch of school clothes over her summer visit, just like we do with the other kids. I always send her home with new clothes, back pack and supplies. ALWAYS. Crazy informs me today that I need to change Vannahs return ticket to 16 days before school starts so that she can get her ready for the school year. I am sorry I am not deviating from the parenting plan, no way, no how! because somewhere down the line she will turn it into something like we got tired of Vannah so we sent her home early! I told her no, that i wasn’t going to do that. Well crazy being crazy flipped out and now is claiming that she is not going to send vannah here and that there is nothing we can do about it. Now YES there are a lot of things that we/I can do about it, one pay our lawyer about another 5 grand and he can start more paper work about her not following the parenting plan, only for nothing to happen, as every judge we have seen pretty much says “CRAZY you need to follow the plan and turn the child over to his father on the dates you had agreed to in the plan” she will say fine and corporate for the next visit, but then this shit starts all over again, and frankly I am tired of dumping our savings into fighting with this bump ass bitch. So what do we do? Do we just pay her the Child Support and let her live in her fairy tale fucked up world and fuck the child all up and try not to think about it and forget about Vannah and crazy and hope that one day when vannah is older that her older siblings can tell her what really happened, (that is what i am leaning towards, only because all this time and money is taking away from the four we have in the house); do i cave and change her return ticket only for her to use it in someway against us in the future or do i call the lawyer and start spending more money we don’t have?? Hubby is about to throw in the towel and just say forget it. Every time he’s tried to call to speak to Vannah she has not answered her phone. And vannah just happened to loose the cell phone I bought her so daddy could call her and so she could call daddyy. I bet crazy fucken pawned it or something… Any other step/blended families going through something like this? what did you do, what are you doing?
I swear this women needs to be locked up in a mental-ward never to be allowed out! For those of you who are reading and are wondering whom I am referring to, I am speaking about my husbands worst mistake in his whole life - his second ex wife. So when I say crazy in this post or any other for that matter I am speaking about her. I guess I will start with some back story.
I met my husband back in 2004. He was just three months back in the states since his year and a half tour in Iraq. He was sent to West point to train some cadets… I met him on a floating barge called Gully’s on the Hudson River. Well back to my rant… Crazy ex wife is Bi-Polar, and takes herself off of her meds often, claiming she is cured, and no longer needs them. No crazy you are not cured, you are a fucken nut job!
She unfortunately has custody of their now 9 year old daughter. She has convinced said daughter that since I have had children with her Daddy that she no longer counts/matters, which in itself is such a load of shit. He loves all of his kids, and I love his kids like they are mine. The two oldest are MINE. Vannah and I had been getting very close, she has always liked me and we always did stuff and hung out while she was here. Well Crazy took it upon herself to fill the little girls head with a bunch of lies and misconceptions about how we, and I feel about her. Crazy told Vannah that since I have had my two bio kids that I no longer need her as my daughter and that she shouldn’t want to come visit us… WHY ON GODS GREEN EARTH would someone say that to a child?? I KNOW that CRAZY said this because Vannah told me! We get her ONE month every two-three months- she is in year round school in reno for those who were going to ask how.. When she was here in March she was distant with me, and never wanted to go do our girly days like we used to. One afternoon she popped off saying, you don’t have to take me with you, i know you really don’t want to anyway. I was like WHAT?? WHAT are you talking about?? Of course I want you to go, we always go get peddies together when you are here. Well she proceeds to tell my husband and I everything that CRAZY has been telling her…. I was in tears, she was in tears and hubby was is shock and a state of confusion. So he called CRAZY to confront her about her lieing to the child. Well of course she denied saying such things and insisted that the things Vannah was telling us were the same things she was telling her about not wanting to come see us. This child never want to leave us when we take her back to the airport for her return flight, she cries the whole drive to the airport and tells us over and over again that she wants to live with us.
Now I fully believe with CRAZYs mental state that it would be in Vannah’s best interest to live here, but she is not going to just give us Vannah, to her Vannah is her meal ticket and her BFF. yea BFF. When the child was 8, she new the inner workings of CRAZYs relationship with a married man!!
The only reason crazy has custody now is because when she was married to hubby, she packed up his truck , and left to go back home to Reno while he was at work one afternoon! No goodbye, no divorce papers, yes he knew things were not working he had filled for divorce 3 months prior when she attacked him and attempted to strangle him! But he didn’t want another failed marriage under his belt, so when she said she wanted to go to counseling to fix it he stopped the divorce proceedings… Anyway she ran off to reno in his truck, with his kid, called and left a messge on the house phone, saying that she had left, and emptied the accounts and wasn’t coming back… Now wasn’t that nice of her?? He tried everything he could to have her brought back to TN but since TN doesn’t have any sort of parent knapping clause/rules they did nothing. So when time for custody came the mediator said that the judge would more then likely not move the child from the current home.. well right after that he filled anyway, but only for it to get put on hold because he got deployed to Iraq. While he was in Iraq his older two kids went to live with his family back in gulfport ms. That feb he got back from iraq the courts wouldn’t move the child… got it yet????? Good,now fast foward abit…
When I first came into the picture crazy flipped! She had it in her little mind that she and him were going to get back together once his oldest two moved out! WTF?? Seriously?? Anyway she flied for a TPO claiming that hubby threatened to take the child and move to Mexico… (because he wanted the army to arrest him for going a wall right…. -told you she’s a bumb bitch… )SO NOT WHAT HAPPENED! that is what she told us she would do if we ever filled for custody!! So 2005 came and went and hubby did not see his daughter. For Christmas that year i made the kids all scrapbooks, and when crazy got Vannah’s she became civil with me, and we started planning for vannah’s trips. We did/do most of the talking as when hubby and her speak we end up back in court, she thinks she is always right about everything, and hubby cant stand to let her think that… She lives in her own world and is out of touch with reality… well back to today….
Crazy called me about Vannah’s visit. We are supposed to get her the Saturday after the day school lets out and have her until 10 days before school starts. My husband and I buy her a bunch of school clothes over her summer visit, just like we do with the other kids. I always send her home with new clothes, back pack and supplies. ALWAYS. Crazy informs me today that I need to change Vannahs return ticket to 16 days before school starts so that she can get her ready for the school year. I am sorry I am not deviating from the parenting plan, no way, no how! because somewhere down the line she will turn it into something like we got tired of Vannah so we sent her home early! I told her no, that i wasn’t going to do that. Well crazy being crazy flipped out and now is claiming that she is not going to send vannah here and that there is nothing we can do about it. Now YES there are a lot of things that we/I can do about it, one pay our lawyer about another 5 grand and he can start more paper work about her not following the parenting plan, only for nothing to happen, as every judge we have seen pretty much says “CRAZY you need to follow the plan and turn the child over to his father on the dates you had agreed to in the plan” she will say fine and corporate for the next visit, but then this shit starts all over again, and frankly I am tired of dumping our savings into fighting with this bump ass bitch. So what do we do? Do we just pay her the Child Support and let her live in her fairy tale fucked up world and fuck the child all up and try not to think about it and forget about Vannah and crazy and hope that one day when vannah is older that her older siblings can tell her what really happened, (that is what i am leaning towards, only because all this time and money is taking away from the four we have in the house); do i cave and change her return ticket only for her to use it in someway against us in the future or do i call the lawyer and start spending more money we don’t have?? Hubby is about to throw in the towel and just say forget it. Every time he’s tried to call to speak to Vannah she has not answered her phone. And vannah just happened to loose the cell phone I bought her so daddy could call her and so she could call daddyy. I bet crazy fucken pawned it or something… Any other step/blended families going through something like this? what did you do, what are you doing?
Monday, May 11, 2009
I must be going nuts
Do you ever feel like have a multiple personalty disorder?? My husband today stated this to me. He believes that I must suffer from some sort of MPD.... Possible I guess, likelihood of it not so much. My opinions just change, whats wrong with that? I'm fickle. So what what? If I'm bitchy I'm my evil twin. If the house is spotless I've turned into Bree, he's got a name for just about every personality he believes isn't me. Well I am all of those at times, but that is what makes me, ME!
Well if you would like to know more about me, please check out my two main blogs
www.RamblingsOFaSAHM.com
Ramblings of a Stay at Home Mom
And www.RamblingsOFaSAHM.com/rants
This is where I bitch and moan and vent about dumb people
Well if you would like to know more about me, please check out my two main blogs
www.RamblingsOFaSAHM.com
Ramblings of a Stay at Home Mom
And www.RamblingsOFaSAHM.com/rants
This is where I bitch and moan and vent about dumb people
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